Sex With Emily

In this episode of Sex With Emily, I answer your real questions about long-term relationships, desire, pleasure, communication, and what it actually takes to keep intimacy alive over time. We get into why so many couples feel disconnected after years together, how shame and stress impact our ability to receive pleasure, and why better sex starts with curiosity instead of pressure or performance. 



I also talk about receiving pleasure, mismatched desires, body confidence, communication, keeping attraction alive after moving in together, and why anticipation and novelty play such a big role in desire. This episode is all about learning how to communicate more openly, better understand yourself and your partner, and create a sex life that feels more connected, exciting, and sustainable long-term.



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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



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Chapters:0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily0:42 Exploring Touch & Sexual Curiosity2:22 Somatic Therapy & Erotic Blueprints6:00 Reconnecting After 10 Years Together8:16 Diffuculty With Oral Intimacy10:38 How To Talk About Oral Sex13:16 Why Mutual Masturbation Helps Couples15:26 Learning Pleasure & Orgasms Together17:11 Helping Your Partner Feel Safe Letting Go19:25 Different Desires in Relationships22:29 Pain After Orgasm & Refractory Periods24:07 Pillows, Comfort & Better Angles25:08 Vaginal pH, Odor & Probiotics27:13 Frequent UTIs During Sex28:35 Best Toys for Long-Distance Relationships29:55 Letting Go of Masturbation Shame31:49 How Much Masturbation Is Too Much?33:13 Moving In Together Without Losing Passion36:26 Why Couples Need Weekend Getaways
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In this episode live recording of Sex With Emily, I break down what’s really getting in the way of your pleasure, from the way most of us were taught about sex to why so many people feel disconnected, pressured, or stuck in their heads during intimacy. I explain how performance-based thinking replaces sensation, why desire changes over time, and what it actually takes to build trust with your body again.

We also get into how to communicate what you want with a partner, how to bridge the gap between solo pleasure and partnered sex, and why slowing down is the key to feeling more present and connected. If you’ve ever felt like something is off in your sex life or struggled to relax and enjoy it, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening and how to create more confidence, clarity, and pleasure moving forward.

Note: This was a live recording from November 2025.

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.





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WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

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Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text

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Chapters:



00:00 Pleasure Is The Teacher


02:08 What Is Pleasure Based Sex Education?


03:08 Learning From The Body Instead Of The Mind


04:08 Why We Struggle To Feel Pleasure


06:10 Lack Of Desire vs Lack Of Safety And Permission


07:08 The Importance Of Slowing Down And Feeling


09:27 Why We Disconnect During Sex


10:13 Building Erotic Self-Trust And Awareness


11:16 You’re Not Broken: Reframing Sexual Beliefs


13:05 Community Q&A Begins: Real Questions About Sex


14:11 How To Communicate Desire And Dominance


17:44 Co-Creating Pleasure With Your Partner


22:43 Bridging Solo Pleasure And Partnered Sex


27:59 Reconnecting With Your Body As It Changes


33:08 Getting Out Of Your Head And Into Sensation


40:00 Pain, Hormones, And Navigating Physical Changes


43:55 Rebuilding Sexual Confidence After Time Alone


48:34 Final Thoughts: Practice, Communication, And Pleasure
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In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I answer your real questions about sex, desire, and relationships while breaking down some of the biggest myths we’ve been taught, from porn shaping unrealistic expectations to the truth about size, pleasure, and communication.

I also dive into why so many people feel blocked or “not normal” in their sex lives, how fantasies actually form, what really leads to better sex (hint: it’s not performance), and how to talk to your partner about what you want without shame or shutdowns. My goal is to help you understand your body and your desires more clearly, release the judgment around them, and ultimately create more pleasure, confidence, and connection in your sex life.



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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

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WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

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Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 



Chapters:
0:00 Introduction & Safe Space Guidelines


2:14 Understanding Sexual Desires & Fantasies


4:08 Cuckolding/Hot Wifing Explained


7:35 Anal Sex Discussion


8:54 Prostate Pleasure for Men


15:15 Sex Toys & Products Overview


18:10 Pain During Sex


24:00 Female Orgasm Challenges


25:20 The Importance of Foreplay


31:54 Penis Size Truth


35:34 Pubic Hair Preferences


37:26 Knowing Your Turn-Ons


42:05 Communication Tips


44:04 Orgasm Difficulties Q&A


48:04 Closing & Resources
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In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m diving into the truth about fantasies… why we have them, why so many of us are afraid to share them, and how to talk about them with a partner without pressure or shame. I break down what fantasies actually are (and what they’re not), why silence in relationships often comes from self-protection rather than secrecy, and how to create space for honest, judgment-free conversations about sex. I also take live questions from a caller who’s navigating dating transparency, emotional boundaries, and how to communicate clearly without rushing intimacy. This episode originally aired as a live stream, and I’m so excited to bring it to you as a podcast- real talk, real questions, and practical tools to help you feel more connected, confident, and open in your sex life.

ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT:
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Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
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Chapters:
00:00 Fantasies Are Not What You Think


01:16 How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure


02:45 Creating A No Judgment Space


04:33 What A Fantasy Actually Is


05:54 The Fear Of Talking About Sex


07:05 Why We Stay Quiet About What We Want


08:09 Different Areas of Fantasies


10:23 What We’re Really Craving


11:20 How To Bring It Up Without Making It Awkward


12:38 Desire, Control, & Trying New Things



16:47 When Two People Are Moving At Different Speeds


18:10 Getting To Know Your Own Desire First


20:54 Caller: Dating Honestly Without Overthinking It


23:49 How To Ask “What Are We?” In A Natural Way


26:55 Being Honest Without Putting Pressure


29:47 Timing Sex & How to Know When It Feels Right
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In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m answering your real, unfiltered questions, covering everything from casual sex and whether it’s actually right for you, to performance anxiety and what really happens to your sex life after the honeymoon phase ends. We get into how to talk to your partner about things like blood flow and stress playing a bigger role in arousal than you think, and how to reignite connection when sex starts to feel routine or less frequent. I also break down why scheduling sex isn’t boring- It’s actually one of the most powerful tools for long-term intimacy! Also,  solo pleasure can support (not replace) your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered “is this normal?” when it comes to your sex life… this episode is for you.



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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily



WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 

 

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Chapters:


00:00 Introduction to the LIVE


01:10 Let’s Talk Sex Without the Awkwardness


02:32 When Casual Sex Just Doesn’t Feel Right


03:06 Caller Question: Feeling Weird or Guilty About Viagra


05:04 How to Bring It Up With Your Partner


06:13 The Pressure Guys Feel in Bed


07:25 Expectations & Real Talk


08:01 Blood Flow & What’s Actually Going On


09:18 New Fixes: Shockwave Therapy


10:28 Caller Question: Why Sex Slows Down


11:30 The Honeymoon Phase Is Over… Now What?


12:48 Keeping Things Fun & Exciting


14:02 Finding the Best Time for Sex


31:13 Why You Gotta Prioritize Your Sex Life
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